I am sure you all have read my post on this young girl struggling to find the next big step in her and her boyfriends relationship. She wanted a baby as soon as possible and she was going to sit him down and talk about her feelings and see if he felt the same. Well, she is on her way to being a mother. I got an email from her earlier today and I was so excited to get back to her and post this update. I am so happy for her. She just got her birth control out and they both agree a baby would be a good thing. So way to go Wanna_b_preggos!!!! I am so happy for you and huge shout out to ya! So in about 9 months, I want baby pictures!!! :) There is the update! Keep it classy!
Hey I just broke up with my boyfriend for this girl I have been talking to, did I make a mistake? This girl is over the internet and has never met me. Help me out?
Sent by: INeedYou Dear INeedYou, This sounds a bit tricky! Not about to lie. I mean you may feel connected to this girl but she could be a poser or not really interested in you that way. I would be very careful. Was that the only reason for leaving your boyfriend? Not the best reason to do such an emotional thing. I can not tell you if you made a mistake. That is all up to you. You tell me, did you make a mistake? I would keep going with this girl and see how this stuff turns out. Let me know what you are doing and how it turns out! I would love to hear back from you! ~ Honey Bee Aye, I guess this is worth a try. I am 17 and a pure rebel. Haven't been home in months and I do what I want. I mean there is no stopping me. I am my own person and I will do what I like. I am in a serious relationship with a guy named Spike. (I don't know his real name) We have been dating for almost 2 years. My parents hate him because he helped me spray paint the shower. I have all goody two shoe friends and I don't think they approve of me doing the things I like or the clothes I wear... What should I do Honey Bee? Can I even be helped? Or am I wasting my time typing this? Thnx anyway.
Sent by: Rebel Lov3r Dear Rebel Lov3r, I see where you are coming from, I myself was a bad girl once. It isn't something that you want to stay a part of. Let me tell you it is just a phase. But "Spike" doesn't sound good at all. I want to say that you should probably reevaluate how your life is going to look after you turn eight teen. It isn't a good road to go down after you turn into an adult. I really do wish you the best and I really wish I could help you more but I really can't, you got to do this on your own. Keep me updated though. ~ Honey bee I don´t know what I should do. Some people tell me that I should report what happened to me, but then there is another part of me who doesn´t want to tell my brother yet because I have no clue how he will react; and yet I don´t want him to be the last one to know because then he will be really pissy for being the last to find out. What should I do?
Sent by: Florence_Pelishek124 Dear Florence_Pelishek124, I am not sure how to address your email to me. It sounds like you have a tough struggle on your hands. It is probably best not to stress too much about for now. Of course you should worry on what to do but dont make it into a bigger deal than it should be. Yes, I think you should talk to someone about what has happened, even if they will be mad. If you did nothing wrong, then you are just fine and shouldn´t be worried too much about upsetting him with the news of what happened. It would be the better road to share with him. Dont keep it bottled up, it isnt healthy. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you update me on what you decide! OK, I don't know how to get this off my chest without going off on someone or being completely rude. I have been having severe panic attacks and they have been getting worse the more I hold them in. I started cutting as a way to release the panic. The cuts are getting deeper but I have no other way of letting go. Can you help me in anyway? If not, I will be fine.
Sent by: panic/at/my/house Dear panic/at/my/house, I feel where you are coming from completely. I mean yes, there have been many low points in your life but nothing that you can't take on and beat. If you believe you can then you really can. As for other ways of letting it out, there are many answers I could give you. You can try finding something that calms you down such as reading, drawing, walking around the block, just watching birds or singing. Those are all good coping skills that everyone should learn. Thank you for coming to me. Keep me updated on how you are doing! ~ Honey Bee Dear Honey Bee,
I currently have been dating a guy for four years, almost five. I am so happy with him and we want to take it farther. I am getting off birth control soon and want to have a baby with him. How should I go about asking or should I just go for it without telling him? I need help.... Sent by: Wanna_b_preggos Dear Wanna_b_preggos, I would sit him down and tell him how you feel. It wouldn't be right not to tell him until after you find out that you are indeed pregnant. I would make sure he feels the same otherwise you could be left on your own with a baby. Make sure he understands how you feel before he lays down the "N" word. (No) But be strong because I believe you got this! Keep me updated on this though! Thanks for writing to me! |
Our first Email!!!Hey, I know you are new to all of this but I thought I would at least give it a try and see how this goes. There is this girl in my class who is cute as can be but I don't want to be annoying. How can I talk to her without being annoying to talking too much? Please help how you can... I don't want to scare her off before I can impress her. Help me.
Sent by: Lady_Slayer123 Dear Lady_Slayer123, I wish you the best of luck with this lady of yours. I don't know exactly how to answer your question. Sounds like that is a little more complicated than it seems. I would say just start it off slow. Maybe be really sweet without talking to much but don't be overly sweet like a creep would be. Remember you don't want to scare her away! I wish you luck and hope you get the girl! Write back again! ~ Honey Bee |